Spice It Up By Talking Dirty in the Bedroom
Have you ever been asked by your partner to talk dirty in bed? Of
course you have, almost everybody enjoys a little pillow talk in
the bedroom. The problem is, of course, when your partner asks you to say something dirty, and your mind draws a blank. Or worse, you freeze up; you aren't comfortable saying those things aloud.
Talking dirty is easy, once you get started. The most important
thing to remember is to stay relaxed and natural. If you are
feeling a little nervous about saying anything in the bedroom, an
easy way to start is simply by telling your partner when he does
something you like. Simply say, "Oh yeah, I like it when you
touch me there." Nothing will fire up your partner like hearing
your voice complimenting him on his moves!
Once you are warmed up, you can start moving on to a little more
advanced talk. Use whatever words you feel comfortable with, you
don't have to use filthy language. But remember, it is not sexy
to use clinical terms. The word vagina, although proper, is not
sexy. You do not have to sound like a porn star, but with the
proper tone of voice and a few choice words you will drive your
partner crazy.
If you are ready to drive your partner crazy with some filthy
talk in bed, start asking him questions. Try saying something
like, "You like it when I touch you there don't you?" Of course,
these are rhetorical questions, but of course, your partner will
be too worked up to answer you anyway!
Remember that dirty talk should not be confined to the bedroom;
take it out of the bedroom to really kick up your sex life.
Whisper in your partner's ear what you plan on doing to him when
you get home while you are out at a party. Because you are in
public, and there is nothing that he can do, he will be unable to
contain himself.
You may be a little nervous when you first start to talk dirty in bed, but once you are warmed up, you may not be able to stop yourself! Once you get started, you will not only be turning
your partner on, but you will be firing yourself up as well and
you may not be able to stop!
Carol Norda's specializes in writing about romance and dating as well as other sexually enriching topics not usually found elsewhere. Visit Carol Norda's website, http://www.temptingkiss.com for more information.
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