It Is All About Attitude!

Why do we really need the experiences that we have to deal with in our day-to-day life? Does anyone know who can answer my question? Somehow, at heart I do know and understand the answer to this question. However, I have no discipline to do something about it in respect of applying the principle in dealing with my own life experiences.

To a certain extent, we all have some sort of karma to deal with in our lives. I myself, do have karma in this lifetime to deal with, it is my famous four (4)! The vibration of the four deals primarily in stability and commitment being the main concern. This is all very nice from my point of view in life, being a Gemini and having some strong characteristics that are contradictory to the vibration of the four!

In my experience of living through that karma, I am beginning to become aware of the existence of sub division, making it interesting for me to deal with. Four is an earthly vibration and has a great deal of focus upon mundane everyday responsibility.

Do you sometimes feel that your karma is never ending process? If so, then that feeling is not just a part of your imagination, it is a true fact because your karma has been around usually for more than one lifetime. Its roots are far from being the lesson of this lifetime alone! That is what makes it difficult to handle and can make us stubborn when the time comes to deal with it accordingly. Certainly, this was the case for me until my girlfriend introduced me to the words "it is all about attitude".

I was not able to comment upon her statement at that point. I was in need of some time to grasp the essence of those words in my head. I had to allow time for my logical mind to analyze the statement, or else, I might have lost my fun in the process!

How do we define an attitude? An attitude is the way we define something according to what's going on in our environmental circumstances. We must always look to these circumstances objectively, in order that we are ready to make necessary adjustments in the case where any aspects of those circumstances are not working. That reminds me of the saying when being presented with half glass of water, 'is it half full or is it half empty'?

Somehow the word attitude opened something inside of me, although I was not capable of knowing exactly what at this point of my experience in dealing with my karma. I thought about it hard and realized that our attitude does have a great affect and can make a huge difference when dealing with our day-to-day experiences. However, when it come to our lessons in life being a part of our karma, changing our attitude to a more positive and objective one can enhance our situation and facilitate our experience in our lessons by creating the capacity for us to move faster in our growth. Now, back to the point of me dealing with my own karma, it will help me at least to have a better attitude about my lesson, my life and specially my attitude about myself. That's where everything starts, with the self.

So, in the end, whether we have a positive or negative attitude we still must deal with things in our life. So why make it hard on ourselves? Just have a change of attitude!

About the Author:

Joseph Ghabi is an author, lecturer, and healer. Joseph provides Intuitive Numerology Consultation, Healing Childhood Experiences Consultation and PhD Candidate living in Montreal Canada. At the age of eight Joseph discovered his clairvoyance. Joseph is natural medium. Joseph started the 'Free Spirit Centre' website at http://www.freespiritcentre.info A community centre devoted to personal growth, self help, soul growth, eating disorders, relationships, healing and human issues. You can find over 650 articles on the site.

Joseph task is in bringing Souls back to realization of their own personal power and into alignment with their own soul purpose and path of evolution.

MORE RESOURCES:

RELATED ARTICLES

Take a Gratitude Break
An old Joni Mitchell song reminds us, "don't it always seem to go that you don't know what you've got 'til it's gone." Stop what you're doing right now, look around and take a quick 30-second gratitude break.

Finding Meaning in Life: Three Steps
So how do we find meaning? The first step is through personal experiences - experiences through something to which we are familiar and through someone we value. Develop your appreciation of beauty - that is heightening your sensitivity to beauty such as in great art or wonders in nature.

P. M. A.
P.M.

Internet Tip of the Week: The Power of Positive Thinking
The late Norman Vincent Peale was a controversial preacher who burst into public consciousness with his best-selling book, "The Power of Positive Thinking". He believed that ordinary people could become really quite remarkable when they start thinking that they can do things, and when they believe in themselves, they have the secret of success.

Being Assertive
Many people find it extremely difficult to be assertive, whether it is in the work place, or in their personal lives. All too often, there is confusion between being assertive and being aggressive.

Success, the Only Option
One often hears people say they can't sketch because they don't have 'the talent' even to draw a straight line. When was it somebody told you "Oh, I can't play the piano; I'm such a klutz!"?Such negative programming of the mind often comes from judgmental parents, teachers, relatives or peers.

Management of the Almighty Anger
Apart form the Emotions and the attitude, Anger is a quite unsolved thing. we become angry when things are not according to us or not as we want, or not up to our expectation.

Building Unshakeable Self Confidence!
One of things that Charismatic people share is an unshakeable self confidence. It comes from deep within and it's the knowing that everything will be okay.

Changing Stumbling Blocks To Stepping Stones?
"The difference between a stumbling block and a stepping stone is how you use them." - UnknownIt is not really what happens to us that matter but how we react to it.

Not Getting What You Want in Life? Your Thoughts Could Be the Culprit
Unhappy? Stressed out? Do you feel you not only want more fun in your life, but you need more fun in your life? You seem to be doing all the right things, but yet you still feel unfulfilled. So, what's wrong? You want that feeling of happiness again, like that sense of pleasure you had as a child when you saw your first rainbow.

Banish Shallow Breathing And Boost Self Esteem!
You know, very often, the manner in which a person holds himself or herself can impact quite noticeably upon their own feelings of self worth and also on how deeply they breathe.I once read that shallow breathers are shallow people and, while I do not necessarily agree with that statement, I would suggest that shallow breathers are often those who might have low self-esteem and could benefit greatly from a change in body posture and breathing technique.

3 Little Words Equal More Power To You!
Life shouldn't be so complicated. Have you ever wondered why it is? Have you ever thought; "why can't I figure this out?" Have you ever said; "I don't have an attitude problem, you have a perception problem?" Why are our lives so complicated?And Even My Reality Check Bounced!I think living is a lot simpler than what we realize.

How Our Thoughts Create Mental Bugs
Our thoughts define who we are. They can make us instantly resourceful or plunge us into the depths of despair.

A Major Block to Constructive Change
A Yale University study a few years ago revealed that the average child is scolded - criticized - over 20,000 times between the ages of two and ten. Mom says, "No, Charlie - don't touch that!" Or a teacher says, "Jackie, that's not the way to do it!" All those "Nos" and "shouldn'ts" add up to a predisposition toward self-criticism that we must look at before we can truly change our lives.

Gratitude: the ICE that Fills Your Half Empty Glass!
Are you completely happy in your life right now? Honestly? Have you achieved all the success that you know is rightfully yours?If not, then perhaps you're missing this VITAL piece of the puzzle- GRATITUDE.A deep and profound feeling of gratitude must be an ESSENTIAL component of who you are, if you wish to live a life of permanent happiness and success.

The Top Ten Ways To Be Positive In The Workplace Of Life
There is a growing volume of research that shows' staying positive is better for your health; you can cope better with stress. It's better for relationships; you keep from judging people and getting the bad habit of gossiping.

Choose Wisely
During these times of uncertainty in the outside world, look inside your self. Are you feeling uncertain? Are there new energies happening in your life? Are there new feelings and paths of direction to choose from? Have you been listening to your inner sense of self?Each time we undergo uncertainty in the outer world, like our neighborhood, our society, our nation or our planet, there is a reflection that is being expressed from inside.

Attitude = Altitude, Its Really Up To You!
Quote of the week:"Of all the attitudes we can acquire, surely the attitude of gratitude is the most important and by far the most life-changing." - Zig ZiglarYou can, and should develop an attitude of gratitude.

Is The Glass Half-full Or Half-empty?
Keep focusing on the fullness of your life: Keep remembering your dreams, your strengths, your unique talents and skills. Be absolutely, uniquely, fully yourself and you have everything you need to create the life of your dreams.

Ditch Lack of Confidence and Unlock Full Potential
Being the next Carmen Electra or Paris Hilton might or might not appeal to all you, but there are things that do appeal to you, and you don't do them.Maybe this is because you lacked the confidence to reach out for it or maybe this is because you just we're not sure it was right for you.