The Default Setting
In the coaching relationships I have with our clients, the
major problem I see is that individuals end up in the same
place - over and over and over again. They mean to save
money and build wealth, only to end up (again) with "too
much month at the end of the money." They've lost the
same 15 pounds 8 times in the last decade. They quit one
job only to end up doing the exact same job with the exact
same pay for a different company. They end a relationship
and then start dating the same person with a different
name. Sound familiar? Everyone has patterns and they are
determined by what we refer to as the "default setting".
The "default setting" in anything is simply is where you end
up if you don't take purposeful action. When you turn on
your computer, the exact same image pops up on your
screen every time, right? That's because your computer
has what are actually called "default settings" that it reverts
back to every single time, no exceptions. The only way to
change the image that pops up on that screen is to
purposely go in and change the default setting. You have a
default setting for every area of your life. Your income, your
health, your batting average, your relationships. Every
aspect of your life no matter how macro or how micro all
have a default setting. The fundamental reason why most
people don't get what they want from life is that
unfortunately, the default setting for most things is way
below ideal. Think about it. If you don't purposely take care
of your body, do you automatically get stronger and
healthier? If you don't purposely expand your knowledge
base and do a good job in your career, do you automatically
advance? If you don't develop and execute a solid financial
plan, do you automatically become wealthy? Of course not.
In fact, quite the opposite is true. Wouldn't you agree? The
only way to affect real, positive, permanent change is to
purposely go into our own program and change the default
setting.
Can this actually be done? Absolutely. The real value of
proper goal setting, conscious attitude improvement and
consistently feeding your mind, is that over time your default
settings will elevate to a place where they work for you and
automatically create the life you want. Exciting!
For more information about specific methods for changing
any default setting, check out the GATEway to Success
Workshop and our PACT coaching program.
Roger Seip
Roger Seip is a nationally known memory trainer. He has
help thousands of students across the country improve their
memory as well as study habits. His new program, The
Student's Winning Edge - Memory Training, teaches
students how to train their memory to study more effectively
and get better grades. For more information on how your
student can have a more
Powerful memory visit http://www.MemoryTrainingForStudents.com
or email
info@MemoryTrainingForStudents.com
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