How To Achieve Absolute Happiness

Everyone wants to be happy. When you decide to be happy you are opening the door to love and inner peace. Many people are ready to spent millions of dollars to find happiness. Some of the affluent people in the world have spent their lives searching for the key to a happy life. Happiness can be described as a feeling of joy, excitement, pleasure, serenity, calmness and tranquility. It is something which you experience within yourself. Happiness is a choice. You can be happy, healthy and wealthy or sad, miserable and poor. Your mind is a very powerful instrument. As you programme your mind towards happiness, your subconscious mind starts to believe them and sooner or later your negative thoughts become fewer and happiness becomes part of your life.

To be filled with happiness you need a clean mind. A clean mind in a clean body. Your past is carried into the present moment. You can change anytime. If you continue to think the same thought you remain bound. Once you change your thinking and beliefs your attitude towards life changes and you will be a different person. James Allen pointed out 'Man is the Master of thought, the moulder of character, and the maker and shaper of condition, environment and destiny. You create your circumstances. William James pointed out, 'The greatest discovery of our generation is man by changing the inner attitude of his thinking can change the outer circumstances. So to have a happy life you need great attitude. Your attitude controls every aspect of your life. The sales results you are getting or the success in your business or personal life are the reflections of your attitude. Whatever comes into your life is the result of your mental attitude. Your attitude controls your happiness, health and wealth. A good attitude always gets good results. Your attitude controls your whole life. It comprises of your thoughts, feelings and actions. Your attitude is everything about you.

If you want to be happy you cannot live in the past. Your past cannot be changed. Even your creator cannot change your past. But you can learn from your past failures. God has given you the power to control your mind. Once the mind starts to control you, you life will be a disaster. You have to learn how to control your mind. A gardener works day and night keeping his garden free of weeds and insects and grow flowers, fruits and vegetables so if you want to be happy you have to tend the garden of your mind, weeding out all the useless and impure thoughts and cultivate right and pure thoughts. By doing so sooner or later you will attract happiness in your life. You came into this world filled with happiness but as you start to grow the outside world and the environment programmed your mind towards unhappiness. Now you have to reprogramme your subconscious mind to bring back joy and happiness into your life. The happiness is already there, it is like a rusty diamond which needs to be polished. Once it is polished it sparkles again.

Happy people enjoy tranquility, good health and high self esteem. They have immense power. They have a dynamic personality. When you are a happy person you can change the negative to positive, bad news to good news. The Universe is you and you are the Universe. You have the power to change. You have to find out what type of thoughts are coming to your mind. 95% of the time the same thought comes again and again like a roller coaster. Start to think differently to have different thoughts. Join the Toastmaster club, become a church member, do gardening, go for jogging, make new friends, become a member of the laugher club or you may take a new job. See what needs to be changed. Once the mental block is removed happiness flows through you.

Affirmation for happiness

I am calm, peaceful and happy
I like myself and others like me
I love doing things for myself and enjoy doing things for other people
Everyday I believe in myself more and more
I feel very good when I see new people
My true smile and friendly nature draw them closer to me
I radiate happiness, confidence when I meet people
Everyone likes me because I am friendly, happy and caring
I always think good in my heart
My subconscious mind is filled with happiness, serenity and prosperity
Each day I am getting more and more happy
Each day I am getting more and more confident
My thoughts are getting clearer day by day
My heart is filled with love
I see joy and happiness around me
I am getting better and better everyday
I am calm, serene and relaxed

Winston Saga is one of the world's leading sales legends. He is also the CEO of Sales and Motivation International. Winston has been acknowledged as a unique and distinctive authority in the field of sales and personal development. Last year International Biography Centre selected him ''International Man of the Year'' for his outstanding contribution to sales and Service. He has written 100's of articles to magazine, journals and websites.

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